I also have a vile text from him telling me that she kept pursuing him, she sent another picture, and what he was going to do to her. Basically USE her.
But he must have used his phone company's web interface and not his direct phone because his # shows up on my phone, but the text in NOT in my online records as being recieved.
Should I maybe show that to her and let her see the REAL truth?
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Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
I am just wondering how much stock the CO is going to put in my phone call? There hasn't been any PHYSICAL interaction, so I don't know how much the CO will care in that respect either. I know, excuses, excuses ect.
Why are you wondering, just do it. This wreaks of fear. Hi CO, your man is having internet sex with my wife, and has threatened me. Simple as that.
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I am half thinking about contacting him too, and let him know that Hell is about to rain down on him. But that's probably not a good idea.
Stop talking, ACT. Don't warn about nuthin'. Start raining hell down upon him.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
Your wife is not gonig to believe he wrote it... She will just say you doctored the whole thing and you are pathetic...
Been there dude, she is completely in the high of the addiction... That is the equivalent to showing a photo of a cancer-eroded lung to a chain smoker... They will just laugh at you..
Well that sucks then. I ALREADY told her mom and she didn't want to know explicit details of the text out of pain.
I kind of wanted my wife to just see it, to take some of the luster off this guy and affair. She is so hung up on him that he talks to her like a common prostitute, and she DOESN'T care.
I guess all that is left to do is call his CO, and make sure he knows I have PROOF that this guy is planning to commit adultery with a married woman.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
NOt planning to.. I would tell him about the sex chats and what damage he's DONE NOW.. don't talk about what he's GONIG to do only.. focus on the damage he's done already...
I think you would assess the damage he has ALREADY DONE is quite substantial... I WOULD include the point that it is planned to escalate soon, but I would focus on the damage he's already been doing.. in my opinion quite offensive
What is your FIL's position in all of this? He appears to be silent on the whole matter and her mother is a spineless enabler at heart...
AT least she is TRYING to be diplomatic... But man, what a putz
How about if you ask her mother to tell your wife that OM will NEVER be welcome in their home and will never be accepted by her or FIL as a member of the famly.. EVER
