even though i knew i wasn't a 'whore', the comment really hurt me.
Of course. That’s a terrible thing for a father to say to his daughter. I’m glad you know that it wasn’t true. Even when you know it isn’t true, it can be very hurtful and shocking that someone close to you is putting you down and trying to make you feel “less than”.
Originally Posted By: DumpedforMIL
it may not be compassion that will ease my anger.
but i don't have to "get back at him" by hurting him 10x harder.
An eye for an eye, leaves everyone blind.
Originally Posted By: Greek
The thing about compassion easing anger is that the compassion is its own reward. It WILL ease the anger - there is no question to that. Compassion is the antidote for anger.
Yes, and that includes having compassion for YOUR pain too. Often, anger is used to avoid feeling the underlying hurt.
