gman,

I'm being starved out. Actually the quote is "married only on paper". Wife sleeps in the bed with the children, put me out 6 months ago.

She looks like a lustpot to me. I figure someones tagging it at the job to keep that lust factor up.

I'm responded with a non-giving "IRS collection agent" tone of voice by her on most occasions.

So I haven't had any in 6 months. 6 months before this slept in different beds, had 4 sessions of physical penetration.

So 4x in one year. Year before this was 2x a week ( sucking to be at the average ), and year before this and years before was almost every day.

I'm mad as hell that my sex life is being screwed with, and have gone through and exited bouts of lowered sex drive, libido, confidence, temporary ED or lowered erection strength due to the situation.

She says its not important. I have no doubt in my mind that that role has been replaced by someone who has connected to her on her nagging complaints of me.

gman,

On LD after. Find those things which will stimulate your wife in those ways or open her up to being stimulated. Also we need to find of true female aphrodisiacs as well as dietery, amino acids or whatever that helps the drive in a female.