The "Amanda" (and her husband and D)that W has been visiting w and w/out D turns out to be OM's sister-n-law. NOT an old high school friend.
And the story comes with it's own truth dart. Turns out (and I have the article) she met OM's brother on a $30 bet that she would kiss the next man who stepped onto the city bus she was riding. There's even a pic in the story of them in the wedding get-ups in front of a bus.
So, being clever, part of my Dobson "I'm moving on" speech should include "and I deserve better. That doesn't mean I'm just going to kiss the first girl that gets on a bus" (She'll completely panic that if I know that minute detail, he MUST know everything. And that's now another person that has become a boundary. The concern is that if she tries to go there before vacation, should I make it a boundary (and then have to say why) or save it all up for as she's getting in her truck on Wednesday?
