Hmmm..that would suck to have the withdrawl last a year and a half after the last contact. I would guess it depends on the person and how detached they are or become as the contact lessens or the A fizzles out. he was almost done with it when she texted him end of April. Damn her.
I did explain this to him while we were drinking wine last night. The fact that it has to start over again each time the contact starts up. he said he didn't think it was healty for any of us for him to continue contact with her. But he has said this many times before. he keeps telling me that she was just one of those people you run into that was perfect for them and they had alot in common. I said I thoguht love was a choice and that if you spent alot of time with anyone and allowed it to happen, you would develop feelings for them.
He'll figure it out..probably sooner than later. Either way, I have told him that I am standing by my man and will give him all the time he needs..good or bad..I felt he needed to know.
