Last night W starts another argument about the way I raise the kids. We went to a yogurt shop, and the kids and I were having a great time. I think that W felt left out especially with D. S wanted to be with me too last night more than W. W wanted to try to be with kids. Kids wanted to be with me. Very interesting. I asked to get 2 more samples. He is 4, but very intelligent. I was really going to go with him, but I was just playing around with him. W is you don't ask your kid to do that. Your are an adult. I just made no big deal out of it. I felt scolded a bit. Oh, well.
Daughter then tells her to stop being that way to daddy, and you do it too. She said why don't you stop asking us to always tell him what you want to say. You should do yourself. You do the same things. Daddy needs someone to stick up for him. W said I will not talk about this with you right now. D said I want to talk about this now. W just told her not now, and D told her she is wrong for what she is doing. I told W to quit with telling me and everyone else what we are doing wrong, and I ended it right there.
Daughter was crying about having bad dreams last night and is sad about our family. She did tell me that she had a nice dream about me last night.
Son told me that he did a good job going to bed, and he hoped I was proud of him.
All W did when we got home last night was sit in the bedroom, and watch a movie and ignore us all. Fun evening. It was going good for everyone at the end of last week, but she is even worse this week than usual.
The kids and I will be okay. They need me to be make sure they are okay.
They wanted to play homeless because W told that is going to happen to them in front of them once. They wanted me to play too. Son said is worried how he will find me if I am ever homeless. I told to not worry about anything, and everything will be okay. He was happy to hear that.
She needs to see what her actions are doing to the kids.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097