Can anyone give me a quick description of "dropping the rope?" I keep seeing that on the boards and it seems like something I should be doing now.
And I went on his computer quickly today to check our finances (Quicken is on his computer) and his instant messenger was open. According to my keystroke program he didn't talk to her via IM last night, but it's like he had it open just in case she decided to log on and contact him.
I know he is going to have to go through the withdrawal process and this is probably part of it, but it pissed me off. Because he did say he was cutting off contact outside of work. Even if he still is pursuing divorce, it pissed me off.
