Well I talked to her mom again. She is utterly disappointed that she is doing this. But she also said that she doesn't see a way to stop her. Her mom now even thinks the marriage has absolutely no hope.
I am so reluctant to contact this guy's CO. I mean that will blow up into a huge mess.
Looking for a little support here in doing this. This guy could go off the hook literally. You'd have to see what he wrote to her last night. And what she wrote back about thinking it was "hot" how he "scared me off".
Its your life this fool messed with. He should learn his lesson. I just noticed the wife thought it was hot the other guy scared you off. Thats really phouced up... She's going against you in every way.
