Well I talked to her mom again. She is utterly disappointed that she is doing this. But she also said that she doesn't see a way to stop her. Her mom now even thinks the marriage has absolutely no hope.

I am so reluctant to contact this guy's CO. I mean that will blow up into a huge mess.

Looking for a little support here in doing this. This guy could go off the hook literally. You'd have to see what he wrote to her last night. And what she wrote back about thinking it was "hot" how he "scared me off".


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed