You tell your neighbors/friends to e-mail your W that they nor you are bashing her.
You tell your sister not contact/console your W.
You nearly tell and think you should still have told your W's doctor about her own problems (co-incidently, how would you have liked it if she had told yours, I don't know, your balls don't look right and scheduled a prostate screening on your UNKNOWN behalf?) .
See a pattern here?
Yes. But that all happened recently. I never acted this way before the A or filing for D.
I wanted to talk to the doctor because I was/am concerned about W's health and to try to save our M. If Sandi is right about HRT and the effect reduced hormones might be having on W's "feelings for me", perhaps this is a contributing factor to the sitch that W is refusing to consider? I was looking for educated guidance.
I will leave it alone and stop trying to control everything.
