She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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Went to court today and it was rather quick. The attorney's told the judge we agreed upon everything and presented it to him. My attorney is still waiting for W financials, so child support is still unknown. Both attorneys were very surprised to see we still talk and get along. They told the judge that we seem to agree on everything, so they didn't see a problem with the holiday schedule we need to come up with.

Afterward D15 had mentioned that W was telling her last night that I wasn't capable of being a primary parent, so I called mt W. I told her to immediately stop talking bad about me to my D or anyone else. She said she didn't say those things, but that she would from this point forward stop bashing me (we'll see).

She then asked if I wanted to go to lunch with her so we could discuss further. We both realize that D for some reason is pitting me against my W. We're somehow going to try and get a handle on that to at least prevent blow ups like yesterday from happening. She admitted that how she reacted yesterday was completely wrong, and would try not to let that happen again.

All in all it was a little emotional, but not as bad as I thought. My W left without saying anything to me, but we sat together in the court room. It still sucks, and cut's like a knife, but I'll rise above and conquer.