You tell your neighbors/friends to e-mail your W that they nor you are bashing her.
You tell your sister not contact/console your W.
You nearly tell and think you should still have told your W's doctor about her own problems (co-incidently, how would you have liked it if she had told yours, I don't know, your balls don't look right and scheduled a prostate screening on your UNKNOWN behalf?) .
See a pattern here?
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11