Thanks guys. I agree with you bluestar and NM but I decided against it this time. The reason being I don't want to set the precedence that she can use DD to 'relay' things in a sneaky manner (not saying she did, DD probably asked if she was going to work and she said no she was sick) in the future. If she's sick she needs to say it, she needs something she needs to ask.
Funny, on the day of temp support when she took me to court to get the max $ out of me she said 'I feel like you're taking advantage of me since I didn't have a job' - I just about fell over...I said 'I didn't ask you to leave, this is not what I wanted, this is your decision you made single handidly for all of us. As for not having a job, how is that my fault? I've supported you both emotionally and financially for a year since you got unemployed. Heck I even told you to ask if you needed money AFTER you moved out'...she said 'I hate asking for money, you know I need it so just give it to me' - I can only shake my head now that I think back about it. Talk about cake eating...wait getting the cake fed with a golden spoon by the one she kicked to the curb. How rude and how insulting. It's like a friend said "dude, she's like a parasite, she'll feed off of you even when you're dead to her" - I didn't like that comment from my friend but it sort of is like that.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again