Watch how you view things - "I can't do anything right." "everything I did was part of some sinister conspiracy to make her look bad or something." This is a pessimistic style of thinking and it lets someone else dictate how you feel about yourself. Look up Martin Seligman and Learned Optimism it's a book that can help you guys.
Umm... that was way back then, and this is now. Back then the anger and accusations seemed strange. Now... I can honestly say I am happy, and I am just doing the things I do either because they are the right thing to do (moral decissions) or because they flat out have to be done (day-to-day stuff, thinking about that right now because I have some home maintenance projects under way).
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
