NM, that's why I said may need to pull way back on vistation for awhile so your S can process all the events(with the C approval of course).
I'm worried about her H using what her S has said so far against her. He's spinning this story with his family and who knows what he's got S to say in front of them. Of course, she needs legal advice. But IMO, counseling for S comes first.
By the way, without a formal agreement in place, you both are in a very precarious spot. I know that you don't want to file for a D but you may really need to think about filing for S to protect yourself and your S.
