Originally Posted By: Piano

People, I don't like WH one bit. I sometimes wonder what kind of person I am 'fighting' for.

And then I remember, I am fighting for a new and improved ME, not the lousy jerk WH has become.


^^ Exactly.

We just arranged our schedule over here! Sunday during the day (2-6 ish so I can do errands and go 'out'), Monday and Wednesday night from 9-11. I think a schedule is great. I wouldn't push the asking about his plans part, but just "if you're going to be around for a while, let's create a visitation schedule."

It does hurt when WHs don't tell us about their plans, doesn't it? I hate it. It helps me have motivation to avoid WH when he's over. If he's not going to tell me where he's been or what he's doing, I'm staying away!

You're doing REALLY well, P, with all this crud. Someday this time will be a distant memory.


me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.