CW I get that you are following MLC advice but I have the hardest time with not enforcing a visitation schedule! You get a break from being the sole parent in addition to the kids not feeling rejected by their dad.

If people need to explain this to me, feel free but....why not set something up? WHat is the harm?
(((hugs)))

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004