Well, After last nights update I now have enough this morning.
I know who it definitely is.
I have two emails. She sent him the incriminating pictures AND the Separation Document I wrote.
Adding all the other stuff up, other than knowing whether the unverified romor of him being married, I have all I need. the joint vacation next week will be enough.
READY TO CONFRONT/EXPOSE
Best suggestions, please?
I'm thinking a Dobson/Gucci with the "Open Marriage" line. And add "now that you have a place to stay, you should go there and be happy. I am done" Think i'llsave it til just before the trip to throw a wrench in it. Or I could do it tomorrow morning and give her the first 3 days of her holiday to move.
Lots to like about that. Let her knickers get in a twist right before she walks out the door.
MWAAHAAHAAAHAAA!
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Everyone always says, "We can't control them," and of course we can't. But nowhere does it say that WE HAVE TO MAKE IT EASY on them, to cheat, either!!!
If you two (and anyone else- Sandi2, Gucci, Allen, I'm looking your way, too) can help me navigate through all this properly, I'm sure I can figure out a way to get beer across the border.
I think NOW would be a good time to start spit-balling ideas.
The "Amanda" (and her husband and D)that W has been visiting w and w/out D turns out to be OM's sister-n-law. NOT an old high school friend.
And the story comes with it's own truth dart. Turns out (and I have the article) she met OM's brother on a $30 bet that she would kiss the next man who stepped onto the city bus she was riding. There's even a pic in the story of them in the wedding get-ups in front of a bus.
So, being clever, part of my Dobson "I'm moving on" speech should include "and I deserve better. That doesn't mean I'm just going to kiss the first girl that gets on a bus" (She'll completely panic that if I know that minute detail, he MUST know everything. And that's now another person that has become a boundary. The concern is that if she tries to go there before vacation, should I make it a boundary (and then have to say why) or save it all up for as she's getting in her truck on Wednesday?
