EXCELLENT idea to request a visitation schedule! for the first 1.5 months of S' life it was kind of random and drove me nuts so I finally demanded a schedule. It has been one less stress ever since. (you know, considering....)But why wait to email him until tomorrow? Just curious.
It has helped me emotionally and mentally to block the OW out of my thoughts. I think you have the right to ask him about his plans to return to Europe and you don't even have to inquire about OW.
Last edited by newmama; 07/08/1003:44 PM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004