You will get there when you are ready. I often wonder if it was better to draw all the stuff out like I did(a bit over 2 years) or to just get it done with? I know I tried everything that I could and kept hope until the last hearing date. When I heard him say under oath that he was done, that was it.
I don't know that a lot of divorced people really work on their own issues before jumping back into the dating pool or not. My theory is that they don't(thus the even higher 2nd marriage divorce rate)!
Know thyself, love yourself and get on with this thing called life!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
