Still trying to find my way

[newmama]

Yikes....first, Mystik, are you reading anything about how to help kids cope with divorce? Please do! Yes, he is old enough to talk to a counselor! But you should let your H know you are doing it.

second...I am worried that your H could use what your DS says against you in a custody battle. Swiss Miss does have a good suggestion of letting him know right away that you have nothing to do with what he says. It could be a segue into you telling him that you want DS to have counseling for the adjustment based on how he is acting.


Bluestar, Mystik needs to check with her lawyer about pulling back on visitation....this is tricky stuff and the current trend is to make sure mothers involve fathers and the courts are on the look out for "parental alienation"