LSG, he went last Thursday after work. I assumed if he did make an appt. after leaving last week that it would be for the same day/time. I have not asked him about it all week but I needed to know if he needed the car (for the appt) after work. SO...I asked him and he replied that he did not need it and he mentioned he did not have an appt. Of course this, coupled with the fact that he referred to FT as being my therapist (as opposed to ours) the other day leads me to believe he has no real intention of going back. He is the one that had originally asked to go - had me make him an appointment. He did not specifically say at the time why he was going. Well, he implied that it was to work things out. He hasn't talked about his session last Thursday at all except to mention discussing my going back to school with her (the FT). Why on earth was he discussing that anyway? Should he not have been focusing on HIS issues???
Sorry - venting a little. Of course, it does no good for him to go if he is not ready to seek help. I'm just perturbed that I was lead to believe he WAS ready and obviously, he is not.
Right now I have that "I don't care what he does anymore!" attitude...so, it's probably a good thing I have an appt myself at 1:00.
