You cannot continue to worry about how much you may have messed up or not. It is about you doing what you have to do now for you. This could help to improve the M and keep it intact.
It maybe that it is hard for you to give her your undivided attention with the type of communication that is going on. Just listen the best you are able to do. It is hard when you have so many issues in the R.
Is it to late? It is never too late.
There are ups and downs, and it will not be easy.
Do not get discouraged.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097