Well I'm a DB failure. My H says he will not go to MC any more. He continues to be verbally abusive to both me and my son. He absolutely won't hear me on any of this about how damaging it is to me and my son. It is very scary and very depressing. I have no other choice but to go to a lawyer and fight and it will be ugly. I'm terrified and very depressed about all of this.
Going dark has given me more peace but has allowed my H to act as insensitively as he wishes with no repercussions. I don't know what to do but this is just the worse possible outcome I think.