Time for you to tell H to back the hell off. And time for you to do as you've done fight back against the alien your H has become ... keep saying you don't want this divorce... and tell him as such... if he pushes... you'll just balk. If he can't understand that... tough. Right now,.. he's making you the bad guy. You're in the wrong spot. Let the whore be the pressure keg to put him under a time constraint... not you. Tell him simply, I'm not dealing with this now and the whore's impending due date is NOT your problem.
You can also tell him to stop using your son to try to pressure you. Allowing the kid to keep that ultra sound piccie was pure manipulation. He knew damn well the kid would show you.
He's clearly spinning his story with his sisters about DS. Back away from the sis's ... seriously. Don't allow him to absolve his guilt on your back. People in divorce sitches want things wrapped up in a neat package... (unless it's their own problems)... thus the "backing off" message you've got. Most people are chickens. Don't take it personally.
Hug Abs
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
