I agree with the others about the FB issue. You MUST maintain dignity and respect. There's a difference between exposure and lashing out. Lashing out or any other action that comes from the hurt place is just a form of manipulation - trying to make the WAS behave. We cannot make them. It has to be their choice to come back. Women do this with crying, men tend to do it with anger. Exposure is a thought out plan, to make the WAS accountable. Lashing out is just wanting to hurt them for hurting you.
