I couldn't agree more. It sounds as if you want to brush away the pain so that you can start a new R right now. It just doesn't work that way. I know everyone is different. I will have been divorced 2 years later this month and I just got ok with dating in March! You are looking for a band aide. No woman wants to be that.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory