g450, there's no time line on these things. I know someone who still cries, seven years after her separation, whenever she hears her slimeball of an ex has found himself a new main squeeze. One year is not a long time, I've been doing this for almost three years now and I still have times when I look at our wedding pictures and have a few tears. It's a huge hole in your life that you thought would never be there. It's a trauma. Often our society presents divorce as just one of those everyday things you go through but it's a trauma, not just a disappointment. I hope you find a way to do something for you on this anniversary and remember it's also OK to have a cry and feel a bit down on that day. It really is OK!
