Why do I keep forgetting that. DO NOT TRY TO FIX WIFE!
Yeah, you have to let go of those kind of thoughts entirely. Even if your M doesn't make it, you guys have kids together, so there's a high liklihood that there's going to be some co-parenting if nothing else that has to happen, and the sooner you let your W/STBXW start solving her own problems without trying to fix them for her, the better.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-