Good point Puppy. When I say it was working, I really mean that she was spending time with me, kissing, cuddling, sex etc...
But we really have not made any progress towards a "healthier, longer-tem gain".
I forgot to note: last night D18 and I took a car I am thinking about buying for her to WAW's apartment for WAW to see. WAW was friendly all over again, hugged and kissed me goodbye and said "love you and miss you".