"Even though we've had our differences, I've always respected you, and I respect your position as the mother of my wife, and so what I'm about to tell you is very painful for me .
Your daughter, my wife is committing adultry with another man. She is destroying our marriage and I have proof. I will take the appropriate measures to protect my self and my famile. I am not doing this out of revenge. Please trust me, It will be getting rough. I ask that you do not take sides during this time and support our marriage not infidelity."
No MIL is in Canada and is not local. I met W up in Canada. She moved down to the hot and humid LA. I had promised the kids before all this happened I'd fly her down for Christmas. I know it will be painful and warkward now, but I made a promise and will keep it.
I'll have to be quick after the call. I am sure MIL is going to call W immediately afterwards. I do not want her to give W the bomb.
I know one or the other will call. When I talk to MIL, I will say the above, maybe answer a question or two , but will not give out specifics or how I know. I leave that up to W and MIL.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10