But she sees me contacting the OM, as well as not wanting to sell the house, as a "backslide" into my "old" self.
She says "All you are thinking of is YOURSELF. You are NEVER going to change".
First... SHe's not seeing anyting right now while she's pursuing other men... You can't win that battle AND look like the nice guy... Her PARENTS should be a LOT more involved than they are...
And SHe is the one thinking of herself...
IGNORE all of that crap dude.. just do what you need to do to protect her and your own dignity
