Screw the Facebook -- that's petty, immature stuff. Expose to his CO instead.
Look, she's going to be PISSED either way. Better to take the higher, more mature road, and be able to say "Everything I'm doing, I'm doing to fight for our marriage."
Puppy
Expose to CO definitely.. But I would put it up on facebook later, I would NOT HIDE her dirty little secrets from anyone at this point... She really does need to grow up...
The more you fight for dignity QS the more childish she seems to get... SHe's just losing respect from everyone at that point