I read your post on another thread about HRT and I believe that hormonal issues are also a contributing factor in my sitch. My W is premenopausal, severe acne, night sweats, hair on face, irregular and heavier cycles. I tried to talk to her about it and she says she has half of the symptoms, but refuses to believe that this can be having any impact on her feelings towards me.
She has done a little research on her own and says she will not do HRT because of the risks involved anyway. I'm ok with that, but how do I get her to at least get tested as you suggested? Maybe I am wrong and she is fine and maybe it is just me that is the problem, but wouldn't it be better to know one way or the other?
Both her mother and her sister had/have severe menopausal symptoms and her sister is on AD meds also.
On the advice of a friend, I was going to contact W's gyno about the situation, so I wrote her a letter. W snooped on my computer, found the letter and went ballistic, saying I damn well better not send the letter or contact her personal physician. This was before she filed for D, so I acquiesed to her demand in order to try to keep her happy. Maybe I should send the letter anyway?
The advice says not to be asking for outside help anymore, but I don't know how else to get her to consider this.
