Spent the day again with MIL. She's great with bub, and of course I couldn't keep my gob shut about WH and what a rotter he has been, but being a Mediterranean woman I hope she'll take my emotionality in her stride.
Got home and received an email from WH who is back in town. In short, he hears from BIL that the baby is more and more beautiful, asks after her health, and wants to know if she is smiling yet (uh, HELLO!!!). Says he misses her and wants to see her and how can we arrange that? No mention about when he arrived, when he is leaving, what happened back in Europe with jobs, etc (or OW, of course).
Going to email him tomorrow. Will keep it short and sweet. Not sending any photos though. I'd like to ask what his medium to long term plans are now so I know how long he's back here for. If it's for some time, I'd like a visitation schedule put in place, so I'm not hanging about wondering when he'll want to see her. Thinking 2 x per week, 1-2 hours, in my presence or 3rd party (and open to suggestions from him on that 'cos it's not really working out too great anymore for my family to act as go-betweens).
People, I don't like WH one bit. I sometimes wonder what kind of person I am 'fighting' for.
And then I remember, I am fighting for a new and improved ME, not the lousy jerk WH has become.
