Scwred up and need advice

[CPCajun]

I am praying for you man. That is all the support I can offer you. Please quit hurting. I am sorry. I just said a pray for you. Please let this burden get off your heart.

Thanks...There is nothing to be sorry about though. I hope the hurt ends soon too, thanks for the prayer.

Just say what needs to be said and leave (I would go get a extra lock for the apt.)

Let her be mad. You must be under control. You go into this with no expectations but prepared for any response. This isn't time for a dialouge.

Time for Jean-Marie to get some BGPs.

Cheers

ps Don't end up on "Cops."

Ok, my big question. What happens if she does't move out? What do I do? SI allow her to stay on the couch? I know this is pending on what L says.

For some reason, I just want to confront her...I am ready.

on a side note...

We did speak for a good while tonight. Her mood has change again, I assume OM may not be available for chatting. She states that she want me to give her a kiss not and hold her hand. I could see her look to the right and down alot, trying to not look at me directly...If I remember correctly from Psych class, she is visualizing...I asked what she was thinking, but she said nothing. So I think this is guilt?

I did give her a small kiss and told her good night.

GAME TIME

I checked the call logs online. Sure enough, as soon as I left she started texting OM. I am going to bust the A tonight. I cannot take the hurt. I dont care if the law gets involved, I don't care if she leaves to the apartment or the couch. I have to get this off my chest. I want to do whats right.

I plan on leaving work, moving what little savings is in the joint account into mine. I will call ATT and put a hold on the account. Let my parents know, to be on phone standby just incase the law gets involved. Then go drop the bomb.

After all is said, I will leave for a bit. I will come back and agree with her,but wont let her tell me how I feel and will not get baited into a fight. Cool, calm collective..... Her anger is good!


1)Do I set the transparency plans up when I get back or would I hold off for the night?
2) Is it at any time ok to say I love her? After the speach right before I leave, when I come back and she wants to talk and know what I feel?
3) Should I contact her mom and let her know.
"Your daughter, my wife is committing adultry with another man. She is destroying our marriage and I have proof. I will take the appropriate measures to protect my self and my famile. I am not doing this out of revenge. Please trust me, It will be getting rough. I ask that you do not take sides during this time and support our marriage not infidelity. (got it on another Puppy Post )