For the newcomers: you have found an awesome source here to help you try and save your marriage. Go back and read through old posts that people have made as it seems there is always atleast 1 or more people that have had a very similar experience. There is a list of do's and don't often provided by Sandi2 that can really help you. Check my old thread or http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952120&page=1 to find it.

THANK YOU SO MUCH to everyone here that helped me with my sitch.

No matter how bad your sitch is you will make it through it. Everything happens for a reason. Ask yourself:

-Is it a problem or an opportunity?-

Last edited by Quart9; 07/08/10 08:52 AM.

Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10