If You Forget Me #71

[AliSuddenly]

Yes I agree and thats what I was thinking.

This is going to sound wierd, but when I think of your sitch and the trauma that you have suffered, I think of major disasters, or war torn regions.. people who have seen their whole village torched by neighbours, or their family bombed, or relatives murdered, or their houses destroyed in earthquakes etc etc.. and in those very extreme circumstances, how do they go on? How do they cope, find happiness again, have a life? What choice do they have, but to look forwards and not backwards? We humans can overcome terrible suffering, but you have to have hope, hope keeps us going on and to just live in the now and be grateful for what you have, not what you have lost. Allow yourself moments to grieve, but allow yourself to be happy too.

Your husbands issues of work and avoidance though are HIS issues, which sadly do affect you and the kids.

xx