NB. I am sorry I had no words to say. But I wanted you to know that I have been there and from time to time, I still am. I am already at that 6th month mark and maybe I am ready to walk away and maybe do the filing myself. I really wanted to save my m but time is ticking too quickly for me.
As hard as it is for friends and family to hear, I love my stbxh. He hasn't been the kindest person to me but Randy Pausch once said that nobody is all evil. Give him time and he will show you his good side. My h has a good side. I have seen his good side and he was a great person.
You will know the right thing to do. If you want to save your m, that is your right. The Roos will help you.
I have received great support so far. But lately the support has been thin. I replied because it feels awful to be ignored. I wanted you to know that I read your words and you are not alone.
I am no vet and I am still working on me. But I have learned to love myself in the process.
