I liked your post. wa's have all the power when they walk. Lb's are just left there in shock. If you go on with your life and work on yourself they come running back. It is a power struggle and we are supppose to be mature adults. You sound great but you sill have struggles on what you are going to do. Continue on as you have been which sounds great or go back to the fight and fight it out. Hope the best for you. You have to decide what to do if the spouse comes running back. Stay the course. Be good to you and you alone.
