Bravo! It is unrealistic that you will be gone 100% while your H is there...you have a newborn. Plus, you said he doesn't know what to do anyway, right?

So being gone for that period of time was the maximum thing you could have done (realistically), in my opinion. So, excellent job taking advantage of that.

Weren't you going to talk to him about something, though???

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004