My wife found me posting on here and was pissed for some reason. I just set up a new email and entered in a new account for DB. She thought everything I was doing and or changing was an "act" and said " those people on the internet were telling me what to do". In reality trying to change yourself takes time, it may not be or sound authentic or first, but you have to fake it till you make it. DB helped me to find myself again. It had very little to do with her. In the end, she believed the changes and she came back to experience them. In fact she changed very much as well during our 7 month seperation.
We are as different as 2 people can get, but we learned true and lasting love has nothing to do with that. It is all about connecting at the right place. And yep, 6 weeks into reconcilling, we are stronger, more committed and loving each other more than we ever have in 15 years. It does happen.
