Ya know, Doc, I think you have sex and love a little confused. I think your wife loves you. She just doesn't want sex anymore. It's not personal against you. It just is. Now, I know you don't want to accept that. And I can't say whether you have to or you don't, I just don't know. But I think you need to stop thinking that her lack of sexual desire is tied up with a lack of love. I don't think that is true. She has shown in a lot of ways that she does love you.