Honeypot:

This is a VERY big concern of mine. To raise children properly in a christian way, their needs to be LOT's of kissing, touching, hugging etc. in FRONT of the chidren, afterall, they are going to be future fathers themselves. My wife doesn't see this, but of course, she pretty muc raised herself, so to her there is no issue here.

Now, about the relationship, I will continue to work on it, but how to change a women that does not care for sex into a LOVER, that is the million dollar question is it not? I really think that some guys marry lucky and have wives that can actually maintian a sex drive, and then the other half of us marry women that for a variety of reasons, just flat out lose their sex drive, and without tremendous effort on the LD spouses part, this problem will not be corrected and will eat away the marriage until there is nothing left to save. My hat goes off to Corrie, I wish every LD women could learn from her.