Another wall came down tonight. I gave H a phone number to return a business call. H asked the name and then went into a long story about this woman. Within the story came out ows name, barely a catch in his voice or change in expression on his face. I consider this a victory!
I know 99.9% here will enforce a no contact ultimatum with the op. I've never felt that would work in my sitch. H and I and ow all do business in the same circle. Remember she left her H and built a palace with big bucks. She fashioned her life after MINE.
But tonight, I feel another wall crumbled and H continues to let his guard down and be his natural self around me.
A good reminder that DB is a guideline but you have to mold it to fit what works for your individual self and your own sitch.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
