Hi Piano, I have not read all of your situation but wanted to throw something out there. My brother is divorced and has custody of his two boys. His ex was not a fit mother at all. He allowed her to take the boys every other weekend. We discussed this because I really worried for their safety. His reply was this....they will grow up soon enough and see how she really is but I will not ever be the reason they do not see her. They will stop seeing her one day on their own. I want them to see that I tried my best to help her be a better mother and she failed at that herself. I know my anger and my children were teens. I could not imagine the anger and pain if this had happened when I was pregnant with one of them. I am not trying to make you send pics, just wanting to give you another pov.
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11