Thank you, CW-- I will get back on track! Yes, I will post those pics soon!

You know, C2H, I was thinking today that people who didn't want the divorce are going to state the stark reality (and if anyone is skeptical, read "The Legacy of Divorce" which is a 25 year longitudinal study on children of divorce. It follows them into adulthood. It is super depressing.).

But those who want the divorce will cling to the tidbits about the kids adjusting fine and push us to be happy and willing, etc.
blech!!!!

I have several tidbits to share but will post them in chunks. First...stbxh's car "sprang a leak" so he won't be able to see S tomorrow evening. He asked if he could switch to Fri. It is no problem, actually, so I said sure. But I did ask "are you getting a rental?" because he could still pick up S in a rental car. He said they ran out.

Well, how "respectful" of him...I KNOW OW has a car! He could have picked up S in her car. But he isn't.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004