From reading your thread, he'll play the victim in either case. If you don't file and he actually does, it'll be your fault because you didn't understand his issues or were too controlling, etc.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6