Perhaps instead of telling her how your trust has been shakened,which she must already know, you can try a different approach. Why don't you tell her how much you appreciate her honesty when she shares something difficult. Make her feel empowered by her good choices instead of reminding her of her bad ones ?
YES YOU ARE RIGHT... I have been trying to do that but I do need to work on it more. It is hard when you try to be an adult and move on when deep down inside you want to "Rub their nose in it" YES she knows My trust was hurt thanks for reminding me PLEASE keep the advice comming.Had a Great day today... Started off at Fern Canyon http://redwoods.info/showrecord.asp?id=476
Taught son how to BBQ hot dogs… Built a dam in the creek (Boys will be boys) then went 4 wheeling at the beach. Tonight we went out for all you can eat Chinese food. (Boy is I stuffed). I called home and wife was going though “Our Room” cleaning things up. Feeling better about the changes to come but as Saffie pointed out to me I am a little scared I guess... So much for the confidence I have built... I AM having a hard time doing homework while on vacation...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
