She wants the house on the market RIGHT NOW so she can move out and be rid of me. That's what she wants. She wants to be completely separate from me, and not to see me anymore.

I do NOT want to sell, and want to stay here. SHE IS FREE TO LEAVE ANYTIME. THIS IS HER DECISION.

I am simply not going to coddle her and do what she says I should do. She INTERPRETS this as me not letting go.

HOWEVER, should she move out, she is going to DEFINITELY have sex with that Facebook guy.

Isn't that going to mess things up more? I mean, when she is "free" there are most definitely going to be other men. How do you deal with that and DB at the same time?

Meanwhile, I am going to continue to work on me, and act like an adult, and focus on keeping a gorgeous home and great life.

She can leave at anytime and deal with the financials herself. She MUST face the consequences of this.

And is only 1 month of Allan's method enough?


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed